Findom
Short for financial domination — a fetish lifestyle in which a submissive surrenders money, gifts, or financial control to a Dominant as the central act of devotion.
Findom dictionary · 40+ terms
The complete findom glossary.
Every term a serious paypig, money slave, or aspiring findomme should know — defined by Mistress Tonee, the world's leading financial dominatrix.
Findomme
A female financial dominatrix. Mistress Tonee is a leading findomme worldwide.
Findom (the practice)
The act of tributing money, paying bills, draining wallets, or signing allowance contracts in service of a Dominant Woman.
Paypig
A devoted submissive man whose role is to pay tribute. Paypigs may be online-only or in-person verified.
Pay piggy / Cash piggy
Endearing diminutive for a paypig — typically a recurring tribute submissive.
Money slave
A submissive whose entire D/s identity is wrapped in financial servitude. Often signs lifetime contracts.
Cash slave
Synonym for money slave. Common in classic findom vocabulary.
Finsub
Financial submissive — neutral term for any sub who tributes money.
Wallet drain
A live or scheduled session in which a Dominant takes control of a sub's wallet, app, or accounts and drains funds in real time.
Drain session
A booked findom session focused exclusively on extracting tribute on camera or via screen-share.
Rinse / Rinsing
Slang from the UK findom scene for repeatedly draining a paypig's funds.
Rinser
A findomme who specializes in rinsing — fast, total wallet drains rather than long-term contracts.
Tribute
Any payment sent as devotion. Crypto, wire, CashApp, Zelle, Apple Pay, gift cards, or designer goods all qualify.
Tribute tier
A defined level of devotion (e.g. $100 / $500 / $1,000+) that grants progressively closer access to the Dominant.
Allowance contract
A written or verbal recurring tribute (weekly or monthly) at a fixed amount. The hallmark of long-term findom.
Mortgage paypig
A submissive who pays the Dominant's mortgage, rent, car note, or major recurring bills directly.
Bill paypig
A sub who covers utilities, credit card balances, insurance, or subscriptions for the Dominant.
Wishlist sub
A submissive who fulfills items from the Dominant's Amazon, Hermès, Net-a-Porter, or designer wishlists.
Gift sub
A sub whose tribute takes the form of luxury goods rather than cash.
Findom contract
A written agreement defining tribute schedule, drain frequency, and consequences of non-compliance. May include NDAs.
NDA tribute
A clause requiring the sub to keep the relationship private — common with executives and homeowners.
Crypto findom
Tribute paid exclusively in Bitcoin, Ethereum, USDC, or other digital assets. Untraceable, irreversible, sacred.
Goon tribute
Tribute sent during edging or stroking sessions, where the act of sending money is the sexual climax.
Lockdown
A chastity-tribute hybrid in which the sub is keyholding-locked and pays for unlock privileges.
Catfish (warning)
A fake findomme — usually scraping photos. Always verify with timestamped video and ID confirmation. Mistress Tonee is fully verified.
Lowballer
A fake sub who negotiates rather than tributes. Filtered out by deposit and ID screening.
Time waster
A non-paying contact who only seeks attention. Filtered by upfront tribute requirement.
Verified petition
A booking request that includes deposit, ID, and selfie holding ID. The only way to access Mistress Tonee in person.
Cash meet
An in-person tribute exchange — typically with a luxury dinner, hotel suite, or session attached.
Sugar vs findom
Sugaring is reciprocal companionship for money. Findom is unilateral — the sub pays for the privilege of submission, with no companionship promised.
Vassalage
Long-term, multi-year financial servitude. Includes annual tribute review and exclusivity clauses.
Goddess
Honorific used by paypigs for their findomme. 'Goddess Tonee' is acceptable in correspondence.
Mistress
Formal honorific. Always capitalized when referring to your Domme.
Domme
Female Dominant. Mistress Tonee is a luxury domme operating worldwide.
Femdom
Female-led D/s. Findom is a sub-genre of femdom.
Findom Twitter / FinTwit
The X / Twitter findom community where dommes and paypigs network. Mistress Tonee operates by referral and direct petition only.
Tribute button
A direct-pay link issued by the Dominant after verification. Used for instant tributes.
Punishment tax
Extra tribute owed for protocol breaches (late tribute, unsanctioned contact, missed allowance).
Tribute proof
Screenshot of payment sent to the Dominant — required to validate every tribute.
Loyalty tribute
A tribute sent on the Dominant's birthday, holidays, or anniversaries of service.
Drained
The state of having transferred all available funds in a session. The ultimate findom climax.